August 23, 2012

Filters

Posted in General, Uncategorized tagged , , , at 9:44 AM by Solutions2Projects, LLC

Last year I took my son to a leadership training program for kids presented by Jim Wiltens.  Jim offers corporate and academic programs (per his website) and we had the opportunity to participate in a four week parent/child program at a local school.  The program was on Wednesday nights from 6:30-8:30 which was pretty tough after a long day at work and I often felt that while there was some good material in the program, that it was a sales pitch for his summer camp for kids in the High Sierras (which appeared to work as my son did attend a two week session this summer).

One of the things he covered during the class had to do with filters.  No, not camera filters or pool filters but the filters through which we observe things that happen and pass us by in life.  Jim encouraged the kids (and parents) to write down all of the things they want to do in their lives, both big and small, and create what one might morbidly call a bucket list.

The reason for this was that when you write something down it becomes more concrete and real.  And by doing so, you start to pay attention to things in life a bit differently.  Where you might not have noticed something before, you now might notice it because you have adjusted your filters.

We’ve all heard the example of when you buy a new car, let’s say a red BMW, all of a sudden you notice all of the red BMWs out on the road.  Or when you are expecting a child, all of a sudden all you see are pregnant women and babies.  This is because your filters have changed.

While my son wrote down his list in a brand new journal as part of his assignment, unfortunately, he hasn’t revisited the list to remind himself of what he wanted to do.  I, on the other hand, have revisited my list to remind myself and keep my filters adjusted.  It is so easy to fall back into complacency and the day to day routine and forget about other things you want to do.

So, give it a try.  Start writing down some of your dreams, no matter how big or small, in a journal or your iPhone.  Revisit the list daily or weekly (without stress or pressure) and see what starts to appear.  Perhaps you notice a posting for a French tutor at a local coffee shop or learn about an apartment in Paris not advertised through normal channels…things you wouldn’t have noticed if you hadn’t written down a goal to live in Paris for an extended period of time.   Á bientôt!

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January 26, 2012

Change of Scene

Posted in Project Management tagged , , , at 7:45 AM by Solutions2Projects, LLC

A change of scene offers us the opportunity to look at things from a different perspective which allows us to see what we may not have noticed before.  Seeing it differently can offer up new opportunities or solutions or even eliminate roadblocks or obstacles.  It can also help us to appreciate our original scene. 

 A change of scene requires us to get our of our comfort zone.

 Yesterday I was forced out of my (latest) normal routine of writing some blogs and doing some online marketing from the comfort of my couch, with my dog cramping my laptop, after the kids have left for school (much like I am doing today).  From the comfort of my living room, I have found myself staring outside at the birds and squirrels, listening to the dog snore, without writing a word for a period of time.  It’s been comfortable but not always productive.

 But yesterday I had to leave the house for an hour before an appointment and I went to a local coffee shop.  I got more than a buzz from the super caffeinated Mexican coffee.  I ran into a friend and had a discussion that gave me the inspiration for yesterday’s blog.  The writing flowed so easily, I finished it in less than 15 minutes (and not because of the caffeine).  

 All it took was leaving a comfortable spot and moving to a different one to get an idea that would not have surfaced if I hadn’t moved. 

 This is one of the things I like best about consulting.  While I’ve enjoyed the comfort of working with a particular client on and off for over six years (with other clients at the same time and in between), I’ve also enjoyed the challenges associated with starting new projects at new client sites.  I can take what I’ve learned at one client and apply it at another client (both what works and what doesn’t work).  It also forces me to be flexible as all companies have different cultures, processes and people that require different approaches.  I can refine my processes or try a new approach at a new client without them knowing that I am trying something new.  I might get resistance at an existing client.   

 I am in between projects right now and this too is a change of scene for me.  My workaholic / jam packed schedule routine is thrown off and there are days that I have no scheduled appointments.  Talk about uncomfortable!  What I have been given during this time is the opportunity to stand back and evaluate what works and doesn’t work in my life, both professionally and personally.  It is a welcome and unwelcome gift that I do not want to squander as I can establish some new and healthier habits and practices that will make me a more effective consultant and a happier person. 

 I’ve already started asking myself some questions about what I want to be doing differently, what I want to do more of, and what things could look like if I change things up a bit.  I don’t have any answers yet but without the change in scene, I wouldn’t even have the opportunity to ask them.